Money And Your Horny

Stingy Men Vs Closed Legs Association..

Let me start by defining the core of this short write up.

 Objectify

To objectify someone is to treat them as an object rather than as a human being. it goes on to say "There are many different ways to objectify a person, including forcing them to be silent, focusing on just their physical body and not their mind, or implying that their appearance or outward beauty is the only important thing about them"..

Then, there is Sexual Objectification: According to Wikipedia , Sexual objectification is the act of treating a person solely as an object of sexual desire. Objectification more broadly means treating a person as a commodity or an object without regard to their personality or dignity. Objectification is most commonly examined at the level of a society, but can also refer to the behavior of individuals and is a type of dehumanization.

Key word we should pick from this is "commodity" . What most ladies don't know is when you make a relationship all about what you can cop out of it, you are presenting yourself as a commodity to be bought. Highest bidder wins. Hence you end up objectifying your gender. As a man, when you make a relationship about your personal sexual gratification, you end up Objectifying your gender, hence ladies exchange their bodies for your money - you become a source of income. Now let's take it to the street. 

A guy is asking you out, in other to decide you have to do some mental calculations about his worth? Some go to the extent of even asking a mundane question like, "can this one buy my hair? "

So, the question is, are you in a relationship to cater for your financial & material needs? Is that the purpose of a relationship? 

You call men stingy because they refused you money. Do i need to remind you that the foundation of all these is because some guy who is in love decided to spoil his lady with money & material things?. He gave her his best because that's what love does - You give! But then someone decided to make it a rule of the game. If you can't cater for my financial needs and lust you can't date me. Sounds familiar?

He got you an "iPhone 12 pro max". All of a sudden you couldn''t hold it all together - you started dripping like the Palmist, "You anoint my head with oil; my cup runneth over" only this time, the cup is your cookie jar while the anointing oil is an "iPhone"...

 

Well the guys noticed and decided to flip the coin. Now they make you an object of sexual gratification. Money for hand yansh for back - a theory that most men and women now agree on...

Don't let money control your horniness You are made for more - To be loved not used..

You want to pay him a visit or come over to his place, you ask him to send T.F (Transport Fare) or AF(Airfare)? The same girl who will visit her male and female friends with her own money! He comes visiting, you must collect also - Oga must drop something.

God says cast unto me your worries & burden but No! You are casting all your burdens and worries on "boyfriends"... 

A relationship is now the financial plan for most🤦. The funny thing is, this is now the MO of both broke & working class babes. It's quite understandable if you ain't working but don't make it an entitlement. He is your boyfriend not your husband. Even at that there are women who are building with their husbands. So don't let Instagram slay queens deceive you.

God didn't create what's between your legs to be your source of income - you are not a prostitute. These days most relationships are just "official prostitution". This mindset is wrong with all shade of filthiness.

The purpose of a relationship is to establish a safe and loving marriage not an elevation from poverty - Well if you are lucky you might get both but be true to yourself. Some of you actually don't need a boyfriend what you need is a job. While those with a job that still acts that way all you need is a change of orientation.

Don't fall for him because he has money, fall for him because he is working his way to the top; he is working in his purpose; he can lead your family and has the 1 Cor 13: 4-5 love for you.

And, Dear men, when you have that woman who has your best interest at heart, show her what true love is all about and pamper her with your loving kindness. She is your queen, not your sex toy.